Sunday, February 25, 2007
the love of loving
The spoon of love.. copied from Endoh.When was the last time you've gotten into an argument with your partner because you were disappointed that he/she didn't do something you hope to see? Or when was the last time you got into a cold war with your spouse because you failed to get what you hope for? Or perhaps at some point, you started to question yourself why are you doing so much for your partner and yet your partner does not give as much?
Balancing a relationship is an every-day thing. It may not necessary means it go strictly on a day-by-day basis. It can also means several different decision making process in a single day concerning a couple. This self-recycling process resides in each and every relationship. There could be times the man ought to take charge of the situation, and there could be times the man should just sit back and let our lovely ladies do what they do best.We just can't have too much of something or someone, right? A badly balanced spoon will eventually slip off your finger, topple and that's the end of your relationship. Being too calculative sometimes hurt a relationship more than striking a balance between man and woman.So next time, before you go screaming at your partner on why he/she failed to do something, why not take a step back and ask yourself, what have you done for your partner today?
( endoh. he is listed under my list of friends ) do visit his blog as it contains many useful and interesting life experiences.
Love yourself first before you love others.
by jefferson at 10:28:00 AM |
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